{"id":20083,"date":"2025-08-17T21:35:01","date_gmt":"2025-08-18T03:35:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/?p=20083"},"modified":"2025-08-17T21:35:11","modified_gmt":"2025-08-18T03:35:11","slug":"staying-by-my-side-openbook-blog-hop","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/?p=20083","title":{"rendered":"Staying By My Side #OpenBook Blog Hop"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Open-Book-Blog-Hop-Banner-great-story-1.png?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3812 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Open-Book-Blog-Hop-Banner-great-story-1.png?resize=920%2C460&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"920\" height=\"460\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Open-Book-Blog-Hop-Banner-great-story-1.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Open-Book-Blog-Hop-Banner-great-story-1.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Open-Book-Blog-Hop-Banner-great-story-1.png?resize=768%2C384&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Open-Book-Blog-Hop-Banner-great-story-1.png?resize=700%2C350&amp;ssl=1 700w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Open-Book-Blog-Hop-Banner-great-story-1.png?resize=150%2C75&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 920px) 100vw, 920px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>August 18, 2025<\/p>\n<h3>Who stayed by your side during your hardest time in life?<\/h3>\n<h4>If you&#8217;ve followed me, you may have noticed that I don&#8217;t talk a lot about my personal life.<\/h4>\n<p>And that&#8217;s on purpose. My family members are not fodder for my stories. They deserve their privacy. But the answer to this question demands that I break my rule and talk about my husband.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t even say what the hardest time of my life was. Together, we&#8217;ve been through it. Together is the operative word. That we even met, let alone stayed together for over 50 years, defies logic. We&#8217;ve faced challenges you hope you never see happen\u2014except to other people. Without him by my side, I don&#8217;t know if I could have handled everything life threw at us.<\/p>\n<h4>Again, I won&#8217;t go into details.<\/h4>\n<p>Let&#8217;s just say that someone once joked I should have been a doctor to deal with all the illnesses and conditions that the family has faced (now including the grandchildren.) But most of the time, I feel blessed with the life we have been given. (Or worked for and earned, depending upon your point of view.)<\/p>\n<p>So, this is a short but well-deserved tribute to my husband. He&#8217;s stayed by me and supported me through everything. (Including incredible patience with what goes into my writing.)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/person-3471540_1280.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-20102\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/person-3471540_1280.jpg?resize=300%2C200&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/person-3471540_1280.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/person-3471540_1280.jpg?resize=1024%2C684&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/person-3471540_1280.jpg?resize=768%2C513&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/person-3471540_1280.jpg?resize=524%2C350&amp;ssl=1 524w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/person-3471540_1280.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/person-3471540_1280.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>No, that&#8217;s not us. We have some sweet pictures of us together, but remember the privacy thing?<\/p>\n<p>How about the other authors on this hop? Who supports them? Find out by following the links below.<\/p>\n<p><!-- start InLinkz code -->\r\n<div class=\"inlinkz-widget\" data-uuid=\"5231f47748c447519089ef994fbd2ce3\" style=\"width:100%;margin:30px 0;background-color:#eceff1;border-radius:7px;text-align:center;font-size:16px;font-family:'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif\">\r\n<div style=\"padding:8px;\"><p style=\"margin-bottom:15px;\">You are invited to the <strong>Inlinkz<\/strong> link party!<\/p>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fresh.inlinkz.com\/p\/5231f47748c447519089ef994fbd2ce3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" style=\"padding:5px 20px;background:#209cee;text-decoration:none;color:#efefef;border-radius:4px;\">Click here to enter<\/a><\/div><\/div>\r\n<span style=\"display: none;\"><script async=\"true\" src=\"https:\/\/fresh.inlinkz.com\/js\/widget\/load.js?id=c0efdbe6b4add43dd7ef\"><\/script><\/span>\r\n<!-- end InLinkz code --><\/p>\n<p>August 18, 2025<\/p>\n<p>Who stayed by your side during your hardest time in life?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who stayed by your side during your hardest time in life?<br \/>\n <a class=\"continue-reading-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/?p=20083\">Continue reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20102,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[4],"tags":[5,507,48],"class_list":["post-20083","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-open-book","tag-openbook","tag-sidebyside","tag-writing"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/person-3471540_1280.jpg?fit=1280%2C855&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paJdTo-5dV","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20083","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=20083"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20083\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20106,"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20083\/revisions\/20106"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/20102"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=20083"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=20083"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pjmaclayne.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=20083"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}