The Biggest Don’ts In Writing #OpenBook Blog Hop

January 12, 2025

What is the biggest “don’t” in writing?

What should a writer never do?

There’s a simple answer to this question – don’t give up. If you enjoy writing, keep at it. Even if you are writing only for an audience of one – you – stick with it.

Now that’s out of the way –

Don’t skip the hard stuff. Grammar. Spelling and punctuation. Make sure you are using the right words in a context your reader will understand. And that the words are put together in a rational order. There are people who can break the rules and be successful. William Carlos Williams. Grandma Moses. Lady Gaga. They put a lot of work into their unconventional styles. We may dream about being successful no matter how we write, but the chances of that happening are near zero. Shoot, it’s hard to be recognized even if you follow all the rules.

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Now, if you are writing for a private journal, you can ease up on those rules. But if you want to pass your memories on to other generations, don’t. The language will have changed enough over the years to potentially make reading difficult. (There are sites where people attempt to interpret recipes, letters and historical documents written by long-dead relatives. Fascinating to give it a try yourself.)

Anything else?

There are lots of other rules. Don’t be harsh to other writers. Don’t plagiarize. And another one, more important than the others – be kind.

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As always, until next time, please stay safe

Goal update: I’m just over 27,000 words. I’ve also changed the tentative name of the book, but I’m still not entirely sold on it.

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January 12, 2025

What is the biggest “don’t” in writing? (What should a writer never do?)


Breaking the Rules #OpenBook Blog Hop

July 6, 2020

What generic ‘rules’ did you abide by when you started writing that have gone out the window?

It’s easier to talk about the rules I broke on purpose when I first started writing than the ones I stuck to because I ‘had’ to. I’ve always been a bit of a rebel and my books reflect that.

For example, my first cover didn’t have a picture of a man’s naked chest. None of my covers have. In my opinion, they are overdone and boring. I also made my main character a woman instead of a man. In a paranormal, wolf-shifter story with a strong romantic element, that’s not playing by the ‘rules.’ I can’t claim it as a true romance because  it contains no sex scenes. 

In the second and third books of the series, I put the female main characters on the covers, instead of the male leads. They deserve the recognition.

Then you have my other series, The Harmony Duprie Mysteries. It’s pretty standard when you have a female sleuth, her love interest is in law enforcement. I played with that in the first book, The Marquesa’s Necklace. 

“I appreciate your concern, Detective.” And I did. “But I have a life to live.” I stood and picked up my beer. He stood too, and moved close to me. One arm snaked around my waist and he pulled me close. I looked up at him, tried to decide if I would let him kiss me, and if that’s what I wanted.

Spoiler alert: I broke the rules. 

What else have I done ‘wrong?’ How about the fact I don’t have a murder in each of my mysteries? No one dies in most of them. I’m writing about a small town and there are lots of other mysteries to solve besides people getting killed by the bad guy of the moment. 

I dug up a list of rules for writers, and shook my head at many of them. It was suggested for beginning writers to avoid the use of words more than five letters long. Now think about how many times I broke that rule in the last sentence. 

The same list said to turn off the internet when you write,  to write everyday and the same time every day. While I understand the concepts behind those ideas, I beg to disagree. If I’m writing and need to research a point, it would drive me up a wall to have to wait to hop on the internet to get the information I need. I want it now, so I can continue in my story and not have to retrace my steps. And while writing everyday is fine, in practice it isn’t always practical and leads to guilt. We can all use less guilt. And writing at the same time every day? Another good idea that doesn’t always translate to real life.

Rules exist for a reason. Most of them aren’t totally arbitrary. Like the use of periods and commas. (Although I’d debate the rules about commas.) They help to make it easier for others to understand what we are saying. But there are times when ignoring or bending the rules is what it takes to express yourself as an author and give your characters life. Sometimes they should be treated as guidelines instead of absolutes. That’s a good thing when used with caution. 

So, what rules do you think deserve to be broken?

Don’t forget to check out what  the other authors have to say about this week’s topic by following the links below.

Until next time, stay safe.


July 6, 2020

What generic ‘rules’ did you abide by when you started writing that have gone out the window?

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